How do I use a vibrator on my partner?
Vibrators can be a great addition to a couple's sex life. Ideally, you and
your partner should select the vibrator together. The more you communicate
with each other about any aspect of your lovemaking, the better. Springing a
vibrator on a partner without talking about it first can backfire. Plus, you
need to get a vibrator that provides the type of stimulation your partner
Once you have
the vibrator selected, you and your partner can try incorporating it into
your foreplay or lovemaking. Be sure the vibrator is available and ready to
go before you begin your session. Having to fumble with packaging or getting
the batteries loaded can spoil the mood. Have it at hand on the bed or
within easy reach so you can grab it when the moment is right.
When you get
to the point in foreplay when you and your partner are petting or
stimulating each other's genitals, grab the vibrator. As you're using your
hands or mouth to stimulate your partner, transition from manual or
stimulation to using the vibrator on your partner. Pay attention to their
responses and what they enjoy. If it's more comfortable for your partner,
you can give them the vibrator or the controls and let them pleasure
themselves while you fondle them in other ways.